Paula @ Gracefilled Moments I’m sorry to say that I haven’t been writing much lately. I’ve been having a fibromyalgia flare, and the biggest thing has been my trigeminal neuralgia flare. My trigeminal neuralgia (TN) flares seem to run in cycles of about 6 weeks, relentless with me so miserable. It’s almost impossible to read or write, let alone do daily stuff; washing and brushing my hair hurt, and so does chewing and wind on the right side of my face. Sleeping? It’s so hard to get my head comfortable, and I can’t lay on the right side of my face; I had to switch back to my old glasses because my newer ones touch my cheek. I find myself mostly just talking to Jesus, in prayer, and singing to him in my head, listening to podcasts or T.V. since reading and writing hurts my eyes. But then, after many weeks, I get a reprieve of about 6 weeks or so when my trigeminal neuralgia is quiet, offering me much relief and more normalness and being able to function better in my day-to-day, and yes read and write.
During the flares, you will find that while I’m here in my space, I’m quieter. It’s during these times when Jesus literally says, you HAVE to stop, be quiet, and put your head on my lap. It’s during these quiet weeks that I find myself unable to link up with those of you who also host Link-ups. Focus and concentration are so off that I don’t want to chance being a Link runner myself. My favorite part of Sweet Tea & Friends and linking up with other hostesses is the fact that I love visiting with everyone. I also wanted to let you know it may take me some time to visit and comment when you link up with Sweet Tea & Friends during my flare times, too. But don’t worry, I will always visit and comment on tour posts.
I hope you understand. Please forgive me for not being as active as usual. I’m doing my best to manage my symptoms, and I will be back to writing as soon as I can in between flares. Thank you for your patience and support.
P.S. If you have any questions or concerns, please feel free to reach out to me. I’m always happy to chat.
Now On To The Link Up
*** I’m still catching up reading your September posts ***
Sweet Tea & Friends is a MONTHLY PARTY and will run from 1:00 am on the 1st of every month through 11:55 pm on the 21st of the month.
1. For Bloggers, you can link UNLIMITED posts of your Christian, faith, family-friendly posts. Feel free to link up your Crafting, DIY, recipes/ Cooking, Gardening, Photography, Lifestyle, Travel, Health & Beauty, Fashion, Parenting, Grandparenting, Home Making, Homescapes & Tablescapes, Outdoor and Decorating. Why Unlimited? Because I thought you might want to link up any older posts that need some love and attention too. Do you host a Link-Up? Link it up.
2. Link to a specific blog post (URL of a specific post)—(not your website). Feel free to link up any older posts that may need some love and attention too.
3. Show some love. Visit your neighbor or at least 2 others and comment to let them know that what they wrote touched you or you appreciated their post.
4. For Readers, please feel free to click on the blue button below to visit other writers’ blog posts. You will find Christian content, encouragement, inspiration, and many lifestyle and homestyle content you are sure to enjoy.
Kindly Link Back To The Host Post or Blog
(By linking up, you agree to allow me to share, showcase and feature your posts. I’ll always credit you and link back to your original content.)
I’m linking up this month with these AMAZING Blog Hop/Link-Up party hostesses!
Discover more from Grace Filled Moments
Subscribe to get the latest posts sent to your email.
Hi Paula, I’m sorry to hear about your flare-ups. I hope that you start feeling better soon. Wishing you better days. Thank you for hosting the linkup even with the challenges you’re facing. It is appreciated. Take it easy and rest. Have a restful week.
I had wondered, and hoped nothing was wrong, when I didn’t see you on your sites the last couple of weeks. I’m so sorry you’ve been in pain all this time.
I hope it eases soon and you have sweet fellowship with Jesus while you rest. No worries about visiting and commenting. We love to have you drop by when you can, but understand when you can’t.
Oh, Paula I am so sorry to hear you’ve been struggling and in pain. I hope you get some relief soon and in the meantime I wouldn’t worry about visiting and commenting. You are doing your best and no one can expect more than that.
Thank you for your kindness Joanne, it means so much to me dear friend.
Thank you so much for your kind words and support Joanne. It means so much to me.
Dear Friend, rest quietly and don’t think about running around online for a minute! You continue to be a gracious hostess and none of your friends are going to stop dropping in because you’re not hopping from post to post every other minute. Please rest and be kind to yourself even as you have been so kind and gracious to us.
Praying for His comfort and healing touch.
ox
Linda, thank you so much for your comforting and grace filled words. Being kind to myself is just what I need to do. Thank you for your prayers dear friend.
My heart hurts to hear that you have so much physical pain, Paula.
None of us here want you feeling additional mental pain by thinking we expect you to visit our every post we link. You are such a gracious hostess to us; accept our gift of grace to you. Go easy on yourself; I hope this flare will pass quickly. You are a brave, strong woman.
Praying relief for you, but I love your focus at this time. Though I know not easy, knowing the Lord understands is a blessing!
Thanks Paula for hosting the link up despite your pain, you have a true servant’s heart. Prayers for your healing.
Thank you, and you are so welcome my friend.
I’m so sorry about the flare-ups!
I agree with Lisa–go easy on yourself. Linkups are so much fun, but you don’t owe us anything. As you said, just rest your head in Jesus’ lap when you need to. That’s exactly what it’s for! <3 Thank you for hosting this wonderful linkup. I'm off now to visit other posts, like we all do, so you just rest! 
I am so encouraged and thankful for your love and support.
I’m so sorry to read that you’ve been dealing with TN flare-ups. I have a dear friend who deals with them and it can be so debilitating and it impacts every aspect of life. It’s time to take extra care of yourself, knowing that you are being lifted up in prayer! The image of resting one’s head in Jesus’s lap is so comforting – may it bring you peace and healing! Thanks, as always, for hosting this special link up each month!
Thank you so much for your kind words, love and support Laura. Yes, it can sure be debilitating. I’m out of my last flare, for now. So I’m catching up on some writing and chilling out and doing some things at home that bring me joy. And yes, just taking it easy.
Paula, first on the list, take care of you! Second on the list, while we all miss you when you are away, we know it is not by choice, but by pain level. And third, come and visit when you can, I think I speak for most, that will be more than enjoyable for us all. You are cared for, no doubt about it! PS, thanks for the link-up, and no worries from here on out! Melynda @scratchmadefood!
Oh, boy, the love and support all of you are showing me is making me teary as I read the comments. Thank you so much!! I love you my friend.
{{Hugs}}
Sending you a big virtual hug! Praying for grace to abound to you, sweet Paula, as you rest your head in Jesus’ lap. May you know His Peace in the midst of the good days and in the midst of the challenging days.
Virtually hugging you back Lisa. I really, really am so thankful for your prayers.
{{Hugs}}
So sorry to hear about what you have been going through. Please don’t worry about coming to our blogs to comment! It’s amazing enough that you continue to host this party even when you are not feeling well.
Thank you so much for your love and support Cathy. It means so much to me, I love all of my blogging friends. You’ve all become like family across the miles.
{{Hugs}}
So sorry to hear this, Paula…took a moment to pray for you today.
Thank you so much Janet. I really appreciate your kindness and support. It means so much to me. I’m out of my recent flare (for now). And I really really am thankful for your prayers.
I’m so sorry to hear about this. Your illness sounds awful and yet you bear it with such grace. Praying your pain and discomfort will end soon.
Thank you so much for your kindness and support Amy.
Another stellar party full of fun and inspiring ideas and recipes. Thank you for hosting. I’m bringing some LEMON HERB BAKED SALMON, CHICKEN CORDON BLEU MEATBALL BAKE and BUFFALO CHICKEN SLOPPY JOES. Have a WONDERFUL weekend.
Thanks’ so much Tamy. I’m so happy to see you.
It was so wonderful to find your blog and link-up tonight! I am so sorry you are suffering so much! My dear mom had fibromyalgia for years, and she suffered terribly. I will be praying for you and trust Jesus will lay His healing hand on you. We are hosting a nice giveaway at our blog, in case you or any of your readers or friends would like to enter. I am going to add your blog to my link-ups page. Many blessings to you!
Sorry to hear about your struggles. Take it easy and rest up
Thanks, for hosting Paula, and having me over.
My entries this month are numbered #122+123+124.
Hope you will join/share M-Sat at https://esmesalon.com/tag/seniorsalonpitstop/
Thanks for hosting and I am sending positive thoughts to you.
What a great big happy party, Paula!
Thank’s so much Donna, I’m so happy to see you.
Sending hugs – as a fellow fibro sufferer I understand. Dropping by from #ChasingMYLife to bring you my CREAM of CHICKEN CAULIFLOWER SOUP. SALISBURY STEAK with TOMATO ONION GRAVY and CREAMY CHICKEN SNAP PEA PASTA. Thank you for always hosting such a great party. I hope you have a WONDERFUL rest of the weekend.
Thank you Tamy, and you’re so welcome.
Oh Paula, that sounds so uncomfortable and frustrating! Praying for you, my friend.
Thank you so much for your prayers, keep em’ coming please.
I’m back again this week, hoping your feeling a little better now!
I’ve shared 155, 156, and 157 this time and hope your readers will enjoy them. Keep resting up!
Yes, Jen, I’m out of my last flare up and feel so much better. I’m catching up on some writing and also just chilling out too.
I’ve been wondering … and praying (now I know what to focus prayer on); keep the faith, friend.
Love and hugs~Val